change call messages and data extraction notification to be DaR if needed

SessionMessagingKit/Database/Models/Interaction.swift

@@ -477,6 +477,16 @@ public extension Interaction {
         )
     }
     
+    func withDisappearAfterReadIfNeeded(_ db: Database) -> Interaction {
+        if let config = try? DisappearingMessagesConfiguration.fetchOne(db, id: self.threadId) {
+            return self.withDisappearingMessagesConfiguration(
+                config: config.with(type: .disappearAfterRead)
+            )
+        }
+        
+        return self
+    }
+    
     func withDisappearingMessagesConfiguration(_ db: Database) -> Interaction {
         if let config = try? DisappearingMessagesConfiguration.fetchOne(db, id: self.threadId) {
             return self.withDisappearingMessagesConfiguration(config: config)

SessionMessagingKit/Sending & Receiving/Message Handling/MessageReceiver+Calls.swift

@@ -230,7 +230,7 @@ extension MessageReceiver {
                 openGroup: nil
             )
         )
-        .withDisappearingMessagesConfiguration(db) // Should follow local setting
+        .withDisappearAfterReadIfNeeded(db) // Should follow local timer with disappear after read
         .inserted(db)
         
         MessageSender.sendImmediate(
@@ -304,7 +304,7 @@ extension MessageReceiver {
                 openGroup: nil
             )
         )
-        .withDisappearingMessagesConfiguration(db) // Should follow local setting
+        .withDisappearAfterReadIfNeeded(db) // Should follow local timer with disappear after read
         .inserted(db)
     }
 }

SessionMessagingKit/Sending & Receiving/Message Handling/MessageReceiver+DataExtractionNotification.swift

@@ -41,7 +41,7 @@ extension MessageReceiver {
                 openGroup: nil
             )
         )
-        .withDisappearingMessagesConfiguration(db) // Should follow local setting
+        .withDisappearAfterReadIfNeeded(db) // Should follow local timer with disappear after read
         .inserted(db)
     }
 }

SessionMessagingKit/Sending & Receiving/Message Handling/MessageReceiver+ExpirationTimers.swift

@@ -200,7 +200,15 @@ extension MessageReceiver {
         
         switch threadVariant {
             case .legacyGroup:
-                if localConfig != remoteConfig {
+                // Only change the config when it is changed from the admin
+                if localConfig != remoteConfig &&
+                   (try? GroupMember
+                    .filter(GroupMember.Columns.groupId == threadId)
+                    .filter(GroupMember.Columns.profileId == sender)
+                    .select(GroupMember.Columns.role)
+                    .asRequest(of: GroupMember.Role.self)
+                    .fetchOne(db)) == .admin
+                {
                     _ = try remoteConfig.save(db)
                     
                     try SessionUtil